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The early mystics who founded the Chassidic movement used to be so into their own introspective Avodat Hashem (Divine service/life mission). So much so, that they never even thought to think negatively about others, much less speak it!! 


There is certainly a lot to be learned from this- especially with regard to the sources of forbidden speech, which include looking for faults in others before ourselves, and failing to judge others favorably if we perceive a flaw. But for the most people, it is extremely difficult to remain rightly focused on our own problems. As a result, Halacha (Jewish law) also mandates that we judge others favorably and take tremendous care with what comes out of our mouths. As they say, Hashem, who creates everything purposely, didn't give us two ears/eyes and one mouth for nothing!!  Human speech is modeled, so to speak, on divine speech- we are made in G-d's "image," after all. Take the story of creation, with the ten utterances that G-d used to create the world. ('Let there be light!' and so forth) 

Kabbalistically speaking, before G-d created the worlds of Beriah, Yetzirah, and Asiyah (we live in the lowest part of Asiyah), He had to make a "space" in which to fashion them. By this we mean that He concealed Himself, so as to make way for the existence of worlds and beings that see themselves, instead of Him. Instead of being overwhelmed by G-d, the posslbility was born to feel one's one presence so powerfully that one could deny Him. 

So in this "space" which exists only from the perspective of created beings- in reality, of course, there is not place devoid of Him- G-d created everything through "speech." So too in the human analogue, speech requires an area outside of oneself into which we project a force- just like G-d seems to do so into the "empty space." That is one way of looking at the statements in Genesis- G-d is projecting a lifeforce into a "space" that is (from our perspective), separate and outside of Him. 

And like divine speech, this power can create or destroy- and once it exits our mouths (identified with the sefira of malchut, or the final sefira- the last step before exiting a given world) then there is no way to get it back. It has exited, so to speak, and gone on to influence other worlds. And our tradition learns from the story of Adam, who is everyone's common ancestor that each person is a complete world. 

This is the reason for the tremendous emphasis on refraining from speaking lashon hara(negative speech)-or listening to it, which gives it a place to enter and continue an independent existence.  Lashon hara must be given no quarter- we cannot give it a receptacle in our inner worlds (ie perception) in which to continue to wreak havok. Because once one hears and believes a piece of negative information,(also forbidden) then it forever taints their perception of the subject of the slander. 

All the more reason to harness the power of speech for positivity- for creation. When a fetus develops inside of the womb, we do not necessarily consider it a separate person in every respect until it has exited. Similarly, when our emotions and thoughts begin to nurture a new potential creation, let's make sure it is something that is positive before giving birth to it!  

Good shabbos!!! 
 
 
BS"D I recently heard an amazing Dvar Torah on how Jonah (remember the guy who got swallowed by the fish?) did not want to fulfill G-d's command that he warn the city of Nineveh to correct their conduct. Turns out the book of Jonah opens by telling us his name is "ben Amatai"- literally, the son of Amatei. Read another way, this could be alluding to his obsession with the truth (Emet).
  וַיְהִי, דְּבַר-יְהוָה, אֶל-יוֹנָה בֶן-אֲמִתַּי, לֵאמֹר.

In other words, Jonah did not want to rebuke Nineveh because he thought that they had been wrong, and deserved to be punished. This is in stunning contrast to Hashem's words regarding this Assyrian city: 

י  וַיֹּאמֶר יְהוָה--אַתָּה חַסְתָּ עַל-הַקִּיקָיוֹן, אֲשֶׁר לֹא-עָמַלְתָּ בּוֹ וְלֹא גִדַּלְתּוֹ:  שֶׁבִּן-לַיְלָה הָיָה, וּבִן-לַיְלָה אָבָד.10 And the LORD said: 'Thou hast had pity on the gourd, for which thou hast not laboured, neither madest it grow, which came up in a night, and perished in a night;יא  וַאֲנִי לֹא אָחוּס, עַל-נִינְוֵה הָעִיר הַגְּדוֹלָה--אֲשֶׁר יֶשׁ-בָּהּ הַרְבֵּה מִשְׁתֵּים-עֶשְׂרֵה רִבּוֹ אָדָם, אֲשֶׁר לֹא-יָדַע בֵּין-יְמִינוֹ לִשְׂמֹאלוֹ, וּבְהֵמָה, רַבָּה.  {ש}11 and should not I have pity on Nineveh, that great city, wherein are more than sixscore thousand persons that cannot discern between their right hand and their left hand, and also much cattle?' 

I am definitely giving you the short version of this Dvar Torah, but Jonah was being told by G-d that He does not just conduct his word by strict justice. The Midrash- a collection of traditions on how we can learn lessons from the Torah's stories- tells us that G-d first intended to create the world in this way, but "saw that it could not endure." So he added  Mercy- Rachamim. For more details on this from a kabbalistic perspective, see http://www.chabad.org/kabbalah/article_cdo/aid/379314/jewish/Isaac-Son-of-Abraham.htm 



*******In Kabbalah, the attribute of Kindness and Giving (Chesed) is followed by the attribute of Strict Justice (Gevruah). Afterwards, mediating the two we find the attribute (sefira) of Tiferet, which has multiple aliases. One of them is Truth, and another is Mercy. So when we show mercy to another, and give them another chance, we are acting in a G-dly fashion. It is not as if we are giving them a "freebie" - on the contrary, to be Merciful is to act Truthfully!!!!

Have a great day!!!! 
 

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